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Dad's Surgery
Dad made it through his surgery in pretty good shape. It was a little difficult, but not in the way they expected it. The Dr.'s did both the trach and inserted a tube in his stomach, but they were more worried about the tube in the stomach. Too make it the easiest surgery for Dad, to put the tube in the stomach they put a scope down his throat and insert it that way. With the way his throat has been obstructed they were worried it may not work very well and that they might have to open him up to actually get the tube in there. It turned out not to even be a problem. The scope went right in. They had a harder time getting the trach done because of the tumor. The surgeon said that it was the hardest one that he'd ever done before, but he knew that it had to be done, so he forged ahead and was able get it done beautifully. Dr. Dixon is making Dad stay at the hospital until Wednesday so that he can really learn to breathe with the trach and give Mom and Dad good instructions on how to clean and care for it. I know that Heavenly Father is listening to your prayers and has guided the hands of the wonderful Dr.'s to give my Dad this little bit of precious time with us. We are all SO grateful for all of you and your love and concern. Every time I tell Dad about all the prayers and well wishes from you he tears up and gets all emotional, which gets the rest of us going too. He is such of strong man of faith! I love him so much. When we were told that this was it, and it was just him, myself, Gary and Mom in the room, we were all crying and he looks at us and tells us that he isn't crying for himself, but for us. He knows that he'll be taken care of better than any of us can even imagine. He's at peace with it all. I know that since he got his diagnosis he has been preparing himself and he's ready. He just wants it to be as easy as possible for the rest of us. I can barely read this through the tears running down my face! So, I'll leave it here for now. I just want to tell you all again, Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart! It really helps bring peace to my heart and soul to hear from you or read your heartfelt sympathies. I love you all!
7 comments:
Nikki,
I don't know if you'll remember me-Aimee Johnson. We used to live in Driggs and you babysat our kids for a bit while we were there. I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I'm amazed at your faith and strength. I will add my prayers to the many I'm sure are already being offered in your family's behalf.
Niki I know it's so hard. We lost our step-dad in August but, same as your dad, as sad as it was, we knew it was his time and that there was important work for him to do on the other side. Your relatives who have passed already are waiting for him and will welcome him home. I don't share your religion, but I do share your faith in the life beyond this one. My dad has cancer too, and we've learned to value family time so much more since his diagnosis. Each day, each holiday, each birthday, we know could be our last one together and we make it the best one ever. I know how hard all of this is for you, and even though we haven't seen each other in so many years, I wanted to let you know that I have great memories of you and your family and the warmth and love that was always felt in your home, and how sweet your parents are. I remember being so young and sort of lost and feeling envious of your happy, intact family and wishing that mine could be the same.
Niki, I am so sorry about your Dad. I can't imagine how hard this must be. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you have a beautiful Christmas season full of love, peace and much reminiscing (that is our favorite thing to do when the fam is all together)!
All the Best,
Jen (Wood) Claunch
I'm so sorry you guys are going through this at this time of year!!! I hope your dad does okay with it. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. ~krista
Oh, sweetie, I wish I could take you and your family's pain away. That must be absolutely heart breaking. Please know that if you need anything, I would be happy to help in any way possible.
we love you and are praying for you. Even with all of this I hope Gary has a happy Birtthday. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
our prayers are with you
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